sihayadesigns: (Me: Illustrated)
[personal profile] sihayadesigns
At 12:40pm, Nox passed very peacefully at home, surrounded by his family. We had the great fortune to find a vet who does in-home visits on Christmas, and she gently aided us in getting through the process. He was warm, pillowed by our arms, and he went easily and with many kisses.

After Friday's visit to the vet, Nox declined rather quickly. By yesterday evening, his breathing was shallow and he'd begun having problems walking. We knew it was time, and he was ready. We called the vet, put an air mattress by the Christmas tree, and he spent his last night comfortably resting with us in the glow of soft lights, which he loved.

Today, we kissed him and told him how much joy he brought us, and how he was the most beautiful cat we've ever laid eyes on. I loved him since the first moment I saw him.

I will probably post tomorrow or the day after-- a list of things I loved about him that I do not want to forget. It will doubtless be a very long list. He was my little fuzzy son, that once-in-a-lifetime special cat who just becomes part of you. My days will be very quiet now.

Lazy Noxman

Date: 2016-12-25 06:25 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile]
I'm sorry for your loss. You have my sympathies.

Date: 2016-12-25 06:28 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile]
I am sad that you have had to say goodbye to your special cat. Tis truly hard when it is their time to leave us.

Yes, type up your memories of him to refer back to. Looking at it will be hard at first, but later you will smile.

I miss my special boy.


Date: 2016-12-25 06:37 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile]
I remember when I visited your place the day before your wedding, Nox was the only cat who was friendly and let me pet him. He really was a cool cat.

Date: 2016-12-25 07:05 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile]
I am so fucking sorry for your loss.

This year has been a giant dumpster fire.
But you are very very loved, C. Please remember depression lies. It DOES get better.

Date: 2016-12-25 07:22 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile]
I am so, so sorry.

Date: 2016-12-25 10:06 pm (UTC)
reedrover: (Summer)
From: [personal profile] reedrover
You are wonderful pet-parents. I'm glad you could give him a loving, warm, peaceful ending.

Giant hugs to you. Don't mind the tears.

Date: 2016-12-25 10:12 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile]
So sorry for your loss.

Date: 2016-12-25 11:42 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile]
I am so very sorry x

Date: 2016-12-25 11:52 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile]
I am so very sorry for the loss of your sweet Nox. You gave him the best possible loving exit from this world to the next. One filled with great love. White light for his crossing. reiki to you and your husband for your grief.

Date: 2016-12-26 12:44 am (UTC)
creatrix: (angel & mer)
From: [personal profile] creatrix
I'm so sorry for your loss. I'm glad he was able to go easily and surrounded by love.

Date: 2016-12-26 01:43 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile]
What a gorgeous kitty! So sorry for your lost. *hugs*

Date: 2016-12-26 01:49 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile]
:( I'm sorry for your loss.

Date: 2016-12-26 02:01 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile]
I am so sorry for your loss. He was a very handsome cat. <3

Date: 2016-12-26 02:37 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile]
I'm so sorry for your loss.

Date: 2016-12-26 03:00 am (UTC)
khai: (ani)
From: [personal profile] khai
Gosh, this is such sad news, reading your post made me a bit teary. 2016 has a lot to answer for. Sorry for your loss. :(

Date: 2016-12-26 04:39 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile]
I am so sorry for your loss. :( I am glad though that he had such a peaceful end and that you were able to find someone to come today. *hug* It sounds like he was a lucky cat to have such a loving family.

Date: 2016-12-26 09:39 am (UTC)
ext_189645: (Cat)
From: [identity profile]
I'm really sorry. He looks a very charming cat and I'd love to read your memories of him.

Date: 2016-12-26 11:14 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile]
I'm sorry for your loss. Best wishes to you guys.

Date: 2016-12-26 12:27 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile]
My deepest condolences on the loss of your very, very special friend.

Date: 2016-12-26 10:39 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile]
Oh, how sad. :( I'm sorry for your loss.

I'm glad that you had a cat you loved so much, and that he had you.

Date: 2016-12-27 01:27 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile]
I've said it elsewhere, but I'll say it again. All my love to you and Jason in this tough time. I know how much you loved Nox, and how hard it is to lose a pet. I'm so sorry for your loss.

Date: 2016-12-27 03:46 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile]
No words... just <3

Date: 2016-12-27 04:31 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile]
No matter how long we get, it's never, ever long enough. There is (some small) comfort in knowing you did what you could, what you needed to do, and were there with him.

Sending you much love, sympathy, and understanding.

Date: 2016-12-28 04:36 am (UTC)
aedifica: My cat curled up on the couch with his paw over his eyes (Oliver on couch)
From: [personal profile] aedifica
Oh, no. I'm so sorry to hear of your loss. I'm glad you had him in your life.

Date: 2016-12-28 10:21 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile]
Oh, this made me cry. Thinking of you. ♥

Date: 2016-12-29 05:45 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile]
Love me some NoxMan. So sorry for your loss, and lots of hugs your way.

Date: 2016-12-29 06:33 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile]
I'm so sorry. It is so unfair. I loved his kisses and how he said HELLO and played fetch with those squishy pompom things. Lots of love to you and J.

Date: 2016-12-30 05:51 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile]

I'm going to miss your sweet house panther.

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