sihayadesigns: (Me: Illustrated)
sihayadesigns ([personal profile] sihayadesigns) wrote2016-11-09 11:56 am

Numb.

I just found out that [livejournal.com profile] tamnonlinear passed away last night.

She was, for over ten years, one of my closest friends.

I don't even know what to say. I am overwhelmed with grief.

[identity profile] zenmaster.livejournal.com 2016-11-09 05:02 pm (UTC)(link)
Damn. Really sorry to hear this news, Chris. I knew she wasn't doing great, but I never thought it would get to this point.

[identity profile] marinatempest.livejournal.com 2016-11-09 05:08 pm (UTC)(link)
Oh my god. I happened to open LJ in forever and this is the first thing I saw. Devastating.

eta: can you please keep me updated? Is someone taking care of her cats?

This sucks. I hope you are ok. I have no words.
Edited 2016-11-09 17:17 (UTC)

[identity profile] royalgeekg.livejournal.com 2016-11-09 05:10 pm (UTC)(link)
I came right over to LJ after you told us and clicked on her page. I don't think I'll ever stop crying.

[identity profile] zenmaster.livejournal.com 2016-11-09 05:12 pm (UTC)(link)
Her last locked entry, posted late last night, said "2016 has been an awful year. I'll have more to say later, over on my tumblr." However, there's nothing new there since yesterday.

[identity profile] unmutual.livejournal.com 2016-11-09 05:14 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm so sorry. :(

[identity profile] willow-cabin.livejournal.com 2016-11-09 05:26 pm (UTC)(link)

I'm so sorry.

[identity profile] kita0610.livejournal.com 2016-11-09 05:31 pm (UTC)(link)
Oh G-d, Chris. I'm so so sorry. This whole year, man. I can't.

[identity profile] belladonnastrap.livejournal.com 2016-11-09 05:39 pm (UTC)(link)
Oh Chris I am so so sorry.

[identity profile] wilhelmina-d.livejournal.com 2016-11-09 05:46 pm (UTC)(link)
Oh, my goodness! I read her posts from time to time. I'm so very sorry for your loss.

[identity profile] atriel.livejournal.com 2016-11-09 05:47 pm (UTC)(link)
Oh Chris, I am so very sorry.
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[personal profile] reedrover 2016-11-09 06:00 pm (UTC)(link)
There is nothing I can say here that I didn't already.
No, it's not ok. It will never be ok. Another sliver of my heart has shattered off and spun away into the abyss.
Please let me know if you need me there to share in the tears.

[identity profile] zenmaster.livejournal.com 2016-11-09 06:24 pm (UTC)(link)
Abby must have queued her last Tumblr post, because it's now showing up at http://tam-nonlinear.tumblr.com
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[personal profile] khai 2016-11-09 09:46 pm (UTC)(link)
:(
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[personal profile] creatrix 2016-11-09 10:16 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm so sorry. :(

[identity profile] noralita.livejournal.com 2016-11-10 12:51 am (UTC)(link)
I am so sorry and so terribly sad. Thank you to the person abovewho shared the tumblr which I did not know about. I may be able to provide some help in fulfilling that wish. i think the last time we had contact it was about the subject. I will watch it and see what I can do.

[identity profile] noralita.livejournal.com 2016-11-10 01:22 am (UTC)(link)
@marinatempest the tumblr just updated with a post about the cats. This is the harrowing legacy of now following with notification alerts such a methodical and deeply caring person. I owe her at least that much.

[identity profile] marinatempest.livejournal.com 2016-11-10 03:39 am (UTC)(link)
Thank you! I'm on it and have emailed the given address and also my pet sitter for help.

[identity profile] ladycoldfire.livejournal.com 2016-11-10 02:30 am (UTC)(link)
I am so very sorry to hear of your loss. Words truly fail at this time. *hugs*

[identity profile] kazoogrrl.livejournal.com 2016-11-10 03:11 am (UTC)(link)
When you told us I yelled, "Oh my god!" in the middle of my office. And then proceeded to stumble through the rest of my day. This is terrible, TERRIBLE, and I can't think of any other way to express it.

[identity profile] ringsandcoffee.livejournal.com 2016-11-10 03:53 am (UTC)(link)
*hug*

[identity profile] naamah-darling.livejournal.com 2016-11-10 05:58 am (UTC)(link)
I didn't know her directly, but we ran in the same circles online for YEARS. Her name was familiar. What I knew of her was so good.

I am so sorry.

[identity profile] lapinetrose.livejournal.com 2016-11-10 11:17 am (UTC)(link)
I really did not know her at all but have been aware of her through friends for many years. I keep seeing her face in my mind's eye, nonetheless, and have shed tears for her, and for you. I'm so sorry for everyone experiencing this loss.